Add a new variable smtpmail-retries

* doc/misc/smtpmail.texi (Server workarounds): Mention it (bug#34177).

* lisp/mail/smtpmail.el (smtpmail-retries): New variable.
(smtpmail-via-smtp): Use it.
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